Chrome man, don't be down, from here the only way is up. Just cos this guy calls his W tater means nothing. How do you know they don't fight like cat and dog when she's home? H and I are much nicer to each other on the phone than IRL - you have no clue what really goes on in their R.
Hold on to yourself Chrome you are a tough guy and you can hang in there. I know you are hurting but you can and you will get through this. I have a theory that all pain is ego pain - Lil's identity system - it's not the real you that's hurting. The part that is hurting is the identity system that you have put between the real you and the world. In a funny kind of way you are acting like a little kid saying "hey, no fair, they get to have pet names!". You have your R, your R is going to work out Chrome, it's tough now but it will work out because you and W are committed and you are both intelligent, sensitive, caring people who can make it happen. You are in a kind battle-field right now and it is tough going. Keep posting big guy - we're looking out for you.
Have a cyber-hug from across the pond {({({({({({({(wee chromy)})})})})})})})})}
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
