Quote: You are like the old west sheriff who is cowering in his office telling himself that he'll shine up his badge and make a stand someday, but just not now while the bad*ss Lactation Gang is still riding through town. If you don't fight this gang, there will just be a different one to fight later on and in the meantime things can only get worse.
I understand your point, but this appears to be awfully insensitive to her situation. He shouldn't be so demanding to the point of irritating a woman who is dealing with an awful lot of hormones, emotions, uncertainty, etc.. (whether she is making excuses for her LD doesn't matter. The breast feeding and dealing with 3 under 3 is a very real strain for any woman and needs to be acknowledged as such.) He can express his wishes for a better SL in a more postitive and loving way than simply seeing it as an old west street fight. Nonetheless, your point about Chrome needing to clarify what he wants in the M is good and I recommend doing so, but would look at it differently.
Quote: Why didn't you do whatever was necessary to make this happen?
Are you talking about making sex happen? If it were only so easy they wouldn't be where they are, and/or the resentment from her for this attitude will likely further damage the R. Saying what you want in the R is one thing, making "it" happen is another.
