My bf's twin daughters graduated from high school on Sunday. They are both adorable-- not sassy, not disrespectful, both very smart. Both work and both have scholarships to college. They are so mature and "together" that I have to remember when I talk to them that they are only 17! I relate to them as peers intellectually; emotionally, I'm like an aunt or older friend (although last year they gave me a Mother's Day card!)