Quote: I don't mean that I will stop posting or checking here by "4 month hiatus." I will just stop pushing my W to (1) finish HN/HN, (2) start reading PM, (3) start reading "Love Diet" (which I got for V-day if you remember), (4) have R convos a times (5) have sexual encounters. I will continue to pursue non-sexual affection, as I have been for awhile. When she stops nursing, I'll start trying to phase in those 5 things.
I think this is a reallly good idea Chrome, give yourself a break as much as W. 4 months is not forever. The old prolactin is doing it's stuff on her, once that's over, I'm sure things will change. Like you say keep up the non-sexual affection but everything else can wait (if you can )
To be honest you might find it easier if you take a break from the board, not that we won't miss you an'all but you just make make it easier on yourself not to be focussing on R issues for a while.
take care
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
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