Chromie,
It's not needy.

You want to cultivate your alpha side but in order to do that, you need a woman to complement you. If she were to share this side of herself (she feels this way, make no mistake) then you would naturally shift towards the alpha side. It is a finely tuned system isn't it!

Honeypot, who was born a girl but had to re-learn how to be one in my thirties.