HEY GANG, I was just reading over my posts since i have been in this forum and i became a little overwhelmed. You guys have helped me so much, stuck by me when i was flat out crazy with grief and pain. Soothed me when I hurt and got my a** straight when it was needed. I just want to say thanks to you all. Jenny, Kent, Jamesjohn, rayanne most recently and the countless others that have come to share and understand the theraputic value of one in this kind of situation helping another. This DB things really works because it is attached to a proven God given process. Michele, thank you too, I don't think there is one of us who has not screamed out to you for help and you seem to know just when not to answer . Today my marriage seems great we are getting along, we share some real nice moments and I am paying attention and "checking my cheese" so to speak. thank you