HI JENNY, your right, that little voice inside of me says just be patience, be positive, continue to make deposits in that love bank and she will come around. I have promised myself that I will buy her fresh flowers for the bed room every week. Yesterday was the beginning of week 2 i bought her some iris, they were beautiful. I feel that i have an edge because of all the time spent studying relationships. I know what to do, but my committee makes an apperance from time to time an wants to gum up the works. good to hear from you