Mike...you could become a psychologist,with your DBing skills. You did a wonderful job of preventing the "incident" from "blowing up" into a majotr problem. I am especially impressed with the way you refused to enable her "pouting",by not reinforcing this behavior.Hopefully,she will give up on that tactic. The fact that you left the decision up to her was wise and is exactly why you got what YOU really wanted as a result.
You are a doing a great job and "pat yourself on the back". Remember,she will test limits often and will try to provoke you as in her heart she believes she is unworthy of your forgiveness. She will become more comfortable and secure as time goes by. Thanks for the update...I'm pulling for you!
