HEY JENNY,
it's good to know your keeping track.
Well, the first week has been kinda cool. We both have been very focused on getting in sync with school starting and all. We had our first dispute this morning. I think it began last night, I could feel something was brewing. She did everything in her power to get me to say "what's wrong dear" and at the same time not talking. The only thing i could think of was you and Kent telling me about a previous situation DO NOT DRAG HER OUT OF HER CAVE! So i prayed and left it. IT materialized this morning. Yesterday she finally brought back the infamous computer through which her indiscretions were confirmed. I set it up and everything was beautiful. This morning i wake up and the machine was sitting near the front door. I asked why and she said that she was remembering the tramatic event of me finding that information and it made her feel violated that i found and read it. So she decided to take the computer back and switch it. I said that i liked that machine because i personally installed the special modem and there were some files that i couldn't import. I told her but if you want to take it back it is within your right (she's a computer tech). I think the feelings I'm having are about the way this went down. I would have preferred that you talk to me first tell me your feelings and this would probably have gone much smoother, and then I left it alone. She at first seemed to be angry, but i understood that was from her being alone with her committee, if you know what i mean. I continued to prepare for the day and as she left for work she said bye and so did I. About 5 mins after she left she called back and said she left the computer and i could plug it back up. Then she spoke about trust issues and i basically told her that i am not snooping around looking for reasons to be sad. I am trying to live happily and i hoped she was too, if somethings going on that shouldn't be it will come to light. I told her that i happen to know that my wife is a virtuous woman and that we all make mistakes. That i loved her very much and did not want to be the thorn in her side but the bone in her back, told her that i had to go and get the kids ready for school and to have a good day. she said thanks, you too, bye- and she sounded much better. This message is on the machine in question. I feel we got through this one woulda you think?

[This message has been edited by MIKEG (edited 09-07-2001).]