Thanks to you all,
your support is paramount, i am sure that this is nothing more than a new beginning so i still need you all to be there. yesterday she went to get her hair done after work and the kids and i went to the house. Because both my young children are in a private school on this side of town i drop them off in the morning and pick them up after school. My wife didn't get in until 10 pm. I fought off flashbacks of the year before we separated when i did all the child care, cooking, cleaning, and paying all the bills. i was successful and we had a short but rather pleasent evening, I spent the night.
i'll keep you guys posted.