Mike...you have done a great job in "holding steady",while providing a climate where your W could vent her anxiety,and you handled it beautifully. Remember,she may continue to have a period of "buyer's remorse" and don't let it get to you,if it happens. Just continue to detach emotionally,provide support and watch it fizzle away. I can't stress enough the fact that reconciliation is only the begining of actively working on and shaping your marriage. Old problems/patterns can surface eventually,but you now have the tools to deal with these situ's effectively.Enjoy yourself and keep in touch, Mike. You are one terrific guy!
[This message has been edited by 17baker445 (edited 08-30-2001).]
