Mike,
I gotta agree with Jen. Your W is waffling. The less you allow this to affect you the better. I also agree with Jen about the new house thing. This is something that can be dealt with later. Don't add pressure by suggesting sudden moves.

Yes, you need to continue moving forward with your life. Dim may be appropriate but you need to decide if that is what you need for now. I told you before I think you should move home. I still feel that way.

By the way, You did a most excellent job of handling yourself in that conversation. Just had to let you know.

K