Way to go...Mike! It sure sounds good to me. I particularly like the way you pulled out of the squabble that evening and left...I also admire your' ability to "sleep on your answer".You are strong and centered and she knows it.Her anxiety may increase as you near your move-in date,but don't let her "push your buttons".Stay calm and detached and avoid seeing her too much in order to diminish the potential of a flare- up of tempers.(Sort of like it's bad luck to see the bride before the wedding)Each one of you will have a touch of "cold feet" after such a long separation,but you can get through this week just fine... one day at a time.
Mike,I am very happy for you and wish you the best this week.Keep us posted....Jenny