I am sorry I have neglected to respond to you this past month,but my life has been demanding as well as hectic.
As you know,I have been busy dealing with my son's situation.We traveled to the beach for a vacation and then I sent him to Outward Bound...a real outdoor survival course.He came through with flying colors and I hope he gained some maturity from the experience.
Your situation continues to look promising,however I sense a reluctance on your part to move back home. Is this the case? Your wife's behavior has traumatized you and I am sure you have fears on many levels re jumping back in to the"frying pan".
Your request to continue with couples counseling is admirable,but if it upsets your W perhaps she should go for individual Rx at this time.(I still feel she needs indvidual counseling,based on her behavior)
If you are not ready to move back to your home..then...just take a bit more time.