KENT AND JJ, I thank you both and need to tell you that your suggestions are very good ones.I feel it is to soon to be moving back together given the amount of confusion that abounds. In addition to the fact that I would like to see her start counseling before this happens (we also will participate in couples counseling at some point). believe it or not I am not the one who keeps bringing this subject up as a matter of fact i feel that my W has really been pushing this since the discovery of her indiscretions. I am not going to intiate any discussions concerning our moving back in together because it is very obvious that even though she says she is, she is not ready and neither am I. peace
[This message has been edited by MIKEG (edited 07-19-2001).]