HEY KENT, thanks for your reply. My W says I can move in August 1st if i'd like. I now feel like I'm not so sure. I feel some apprehension as well as some uncomfortability about moving again. I do feel August 1 is to soon. I have some financially matters that i need to square away. I would also like to see her finish this clean up project she has talked about for the last year. Speaking of year Aug. 31st will be exactly 1 year of separation. I need to draw from the experience of you who have got back together. Please share your feelings just before moving back together and your current experiences and any tips that you might be able to share. Just as a side note my W and kids are in arizona now to visit relatives. I asked my W if she'd mind if I stayed at the house for the week that they were gone she said she did'nt feel comfortable with that, but i could move in aug 1 if i'd like. This kinda threw me for a loop seeing that she has given me the key and the alarm code. It became a big deal because to me it didn't make sense, she says she wants the house to be throughly cleaned before i come to stay.t we got over it and i haven't brought it up again. insights please
