It's very enlightening to hear the good news and it truly is good news about you and your wife. And it is understanding that you should and would have some doubts about the move. You ARE a very kind and loving man, and you deserve someone who will love you unconditionally. Sometimes it takes experience to realize the importance of unconditional love. You have shown that to your wife, and maybe she can learn from association. Your sensitivity also shows a caring heart, you have to have enough in your own heart not to want to hurt anyone else, because you know how it feels to be hurt. Keep your eyes as well as your heart open, don't look for the negative, because we always draw what we fear to us. So be positive and keep giving love. Jerrilyn Minor