My point is that you should soften your positions and your feeling of righteousness.
putting you faith in your H and making yourself vulnerable, revealing to him all your true needs and desires, should be possible. I know it won’t be easy, but you need to open yourself to this eventuality if you are ever going to get your marriage back.
Just wanted to say I agree with Cobra on these statements Heather. Your "shields" are so obvious from your posts. I'm sure your H is fully aware of them too. I think you should work on "softening" a little and letting your H in more. He's just mirroring what you are presenting to him it seems like.
Also, just wanted to say I love Food Network too!!
