Am I Creating a SSM Part IV

[heatherg]

Hey Sheila, it's so good to see you whenever you pop in! I appreciate your ongoing support. Leaving our M is the hardest decision your or I will ever make....I am so glad to hear that your kids are thriving. I know there is life on the other side because people like you take time out of your days and away from the pain of your own situations to reassure me of that.....thank you, so much.

I remember a post on your thread in infidelity.. it's not making the right decision, but making the decision right that counts. It's stuck with me and helped along the way.

Yes, I loved that...I actually saw it posted somewhere else and brought it over to my thread. It makes so much sense and helps bring some peace to otherwise indecisive people like me Glad you found some words on my thread that were able to help you because you sure left many helpful words behind.

I think it's great that you and H are getting along better and that he started his IC (finally!). Maybe you'll be able to salvage a R, but at the very least, your kids are sure to benefit from becoming less enmeshed with one another.

Peace Sheila, in the greatest sense of the word.