Neither is calling her a asexual b!tch, or Ice queen, in front of her to all your poker buddies, like one of my associates is fond of doing. Stig, if you remember our convo about male voice and how it is received in the brain, you will see other reasons for this too.
- I know we're off thread topic, darksole, but yes. And why even F schizophrenics hear M voices exclusively just as M schizos. And these nasty depth charges drop into the unconscious unfiltered...hmmm, male voice matches male voice tonality-bing! -Accept the voice information and boooom goes the depth charge direct hit on the F's libido and self-esteem part of the unconscious.
I was going to address this further on someone or other's thread, BF, but will just say here for general purposes the unconscious, as you know, does not understand nor delineate perception from reality. It accepts all incoming information as reality and regurgitates its patterned response. (it is the consciousness that is only able to sort the real world from mind-created realities)
Why I stress internal dialogue is so important and likewise potentially dangerous.
-Stigmata-
The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ