Quote: I drove the coworker home because it was kind, it is who I want to be and I would hope for the same in return from someone else. H's reaction will be his. I am going to tell H that I am choosing to continue seeing our MC, I hope he decides to return, but if he doesn't, my sessions with her will continue regardless. This will piss him off big time. But again, his reaction will be his.
This is good stuff, heather, and it is SO HARD to do...so hard to get yourself to believe it. It's definitely "character building."
I think you are being a "woman of steel," much like a poster named csw was several months ago. I salute you, and empathize with your very difficult situation.
Your relationship will either work itself out, or it won't. Either way, you appear to be putting forth a great effort.
