JENNY, the answers to your questions are: one of the affairs was work related and the other was a __ night stab.. er..stand. We have been married for 6 years and plutonic friends and business partners for 2 years prior to that. I am 47, she is 32. Prior to this post she called me and stated that she would go to back to counseling, this time with a true pro marriage counselor. I suggested Michele and her people, she agreed. She also said that when ever i am there to feel free to answer the phone because she wants it to be clear she has nothing to hide. She stated that these incidents happened just before and early in the separation and were and are truly over. She also said that she is going to give me a key to the house to prove that she is for real and as preparation for us moving back in together. I know that my job is as you say to stay cool and let her take these steps as opposed to just talking about them. Jenny you may have been right about the discovery possibly being positive. Could it be that she has really hit bottom with her behavior and our struggles? Or is it possible that the stress of keeping the secrets was instrumental in keep her in flux? Whad da ya think?
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