Do you realize that you are taking a condescending tone in your posts complaining about condescending tones?
When I first got here, Cobra and MrsNOPS hit me pretty solid with some 2x4s. I took umbrage at some of their remarks, we discussed it a bit, and I think we came to an understanding of each other (how much can you really know about another persons intentions toward you, even IRL). Looking back through my threads, I notice that as a result Cobra and MrsNOPS don't post on my threads as much as they do on others. It has nothing to do with whether we like each other or not (I happen to like both of them a lot for the advice they have given me), but the styles sometimes don't mesh. I think Heather is perfectly capable of handling herself in a similar way if she feels Lil or Cobra or anyone is writing in a way that she doesn't appreciate.
That being said, I do appreciate you wanting to stick up for someone who you feel is being unduly pressured. If Heather was cowering and whimpering in a corner just blindly accepting their "abuse", then sticking up for her in the way you have would be more appropriate. But I have a strong feeling that Heather can handle herself very well, even with some of the heavyweights here (who have already TKO'd me LOL).
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
