Yes - I addressed Heather with questions and answers to give MY OPINION. Heather (and you) are entitled to agree or disagree. My point is, that in my opinion, Heather IS doing fine and since she continues posting, she probably gets at least a little something useful out of it.
I will check your links. I am a mental health professional and I use many different styles of questioning depending upon what my intent is. My style is definately colored by my profession.
