Burgbud I think you are making some very well-written points. Sorry to hear about your friend, OSB. Most of the people on ALL of these boards are in pretty fragile emotional states. Yet another reason to not use this board as THERAPY. We don't have a clear picture of what any of us are really going through in REAL LIFE. Let's not forget, this is the internet, people!!!! Cyber Reality, not REAL LIFE.
