THANKS JENNY AND KENT, guess who showed up at the store today, yup, my W. She wants to know how come i didn't call her last night. Can you believe that! I told her simply because i have a life and I'm still dealing with some issues concerning my feelings about my discovery. she said some things and to make a long story short I firmly believe that she is trying to get things back to a comfortable spot. I had to resume writing this post because she just came back again 2 hours later to explain what she had explained earlier. I am convinced that it will be necessary that i maintain distance or we will be right back in the same spot. I've got to go, check you guys later!