Am I Creating a SSM Part IV

[Burgbud]

Heather, I came on strong to you because I'm trying to get your attention.

I don't mean to pick on you, Lil, but this is the third or fourth time I've seen this concept crop up in one of Heather's threads on this forum and I don't understand it. Why is it so difficult to get her attention without being disrespectful? Are people really so wise around here that what they have to say supersedes the need to treat people with courtesy?


We don't generally blow sunshine up each other's dresses/pants.

Deflection and obfuscation. Treating people with respect is not the same as pumping sunshine. Heather's listened to a lot of difficult stuff during her time on this board without the ideas being dressed up in fireworks. Try her.