RE Heatherg Apparently, he's trying to diagnose me. Can't really get too upset, I do the same right?
You might be right he is trying to diagnose you but I also bet he will see himself in the book and see how relationships go south and maybe some insights as how to improve what you two have.
The way I read the book was "that is me too" always letting people's behaviors get to me. No I don't want to control anyone, oops yes I do want to control situations.