Interesting choice of read. Is your H the child of an alcoholic or anything like that? Does he know someone who has a substance abusing parent or spouse? These are reasons that he may be reading it other than applying it to you and he. The book basically covers the problems of enmeshment with other and deals with each side taking ownership of their own mental sh!t. I'll be interested to see if he tries out anything in it. You could get a copy at the public library and read along.
