Yup, have to agree with Lil here. Alcoholic for sure. Alanon is VERY good to dealing with all this.
Heather, I know exactly what you mean when you say he never goes anywhere when drinking. MY H didn't either. Maybe the thought of loosing a drivers license due to alcohol is the stopper there, I don't know. Whatever you do and how you feel, know that you have cyber friends here that understand (((hug)))
