Heather, What did I miss? Why can't you sell the vehicle?
If I were your H, I would have just driven it up to the dealership and taken care of it myself. I think it's ridiculous to have something in your possession that obviously bothers your partner so much. Is that the real reason why you keep it? Because it forces SOME reaction from your H...some indication of how he feels about you? I know you are desperate to see some romantic emotion from him and I don't blame you.