Hey Gang, I guess the weather is nice and everyone is trying to enjoy life. For some reason I feel like I am out on a space walk and got untethered. I have been trying to keep up the balancing act of being in the proximity of my W but at the same time stepping out of the pursuer role. I need help! I have stopped initiating phone calls, I have stopped the initiating the OR talks, She has continued to call, I am working on not really giving her to much personal info. There are some indications that this might be helping. she invited me out to her aunt's barbeque on fathers day, we had a good time. Even though earlier that same day I felt I was inches from telling her that I don't want to be around you anymore this little game has to stop. I did'nt because I had an opportunity to talk to a good buddy of mine before I went to the que (he is going through a similar situation) so I was able to vent. To make things more diffcult I just finished reading Dobson's "Love Must be Tough" and now I am throughly confused. Am I suppose to force a confrontation or crisis as he calls it. Should I say I love you, but either you make a decision concerning us moving back together or forget the whole thing. Am I or are we even in a reconciliation mode or is she just stringing me along because she is having her cake and eating it too, or is she waiting for me to pull the plug so she won't have to be responsible for that too. What the hell is going on I AM IN A PERSONAL CRISIS AND DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO. PLEASE HELP!
P.S. is this what they mean by the phrase coming unglued?
