Mike, Seems like W is angry at your sudden withdrawl from providing. This could go either way, but I agree that you should wait it out a bit and see if she starts to think.
Don't be dark, just dim. That means unavailable to help her with her daily life. Don't neglect the kiddes though. Make sure you sound happy when you see or talk to her. If she questions you, tell her you been busy getting your own life on track. Perhaps you can join a new club or activity.
Hang in there buddy and happy birthday.
Oh ya, lose the anger and resentment. It ain't over, you just had a setback.
Kent
[This message has been edited by KentS (edited 06-13-2001).]
