Thank you for posting that; the hardest part in these things (besides the heartache) is to actually see ourselves clearly and effect a real change. Still working on that. Prayer said for your family; keep us posted!
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3