Are ya sure she was'nt havin a bad day? Did she sense your pursuit(your jammeys) and strike back?
It's important that you take evasive action on the bad feelings you have right now. Go dim for a while to get it togather.
You decide when enough is enough. One thing I sense is that you are making things a bit cozy for W. Taking care of the house problems should belong in her court. Stop being so damn accomodating.
If it were me, I would give serious consideration to moving home to force the issue. However, this is your lif, not mine.
