VIOLET,
Thank you very much for your last reply. I have been preoccupied with trying to make a living, you know what I mean.
Where do I start?
OK, last weekend was very difficult, my W and I were just not on the same page.
Very honestly, it was probably my fault. However, I am sure I felt my W distancing. I think I became a little needy last weekend; In the sense that I was longing for the joyful banter and loving conversations that we had been sharing for the last two or three weeks. So I kinda probed to find out what was going on with the "dead pan" and it caused friction. Then I started looping and she jumped right in, Damn, just like the old days. We did try to salvage the weekend and get back on the right track. I stopped by late sunday evening and after some pretty akward silence we just talked especially after little Mikal cut his foot pretty bad on a hot wheel car. Good thing i was there or my wife would have called me from the emergency room, she can't handle her children bleeding, period. In retrospect, she was and still is probably exhausted after her finals and since she works for the public school system she is the keystone for setting up all the logistics for trips, luncheons, graduations and the like, so she is still running. Moving back in has not come up since our decision two weeks ago to start making the changes to the house in about two weeks or so. I am being patience, I think, and do not intend to mention the move unless it is mentioned to me. Do you think this is a good strategy? I really miss my children and sometimes feel cheated that i am not living with them, they need me. I WANNA GO HOME!
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