thank you for your suggestion concerning sharing the work load. It is a major concern because although my W did absolutely nothing for a year she went into consuling talking like she did everything and i did nothing. Not to mention the fact that while I was the only one housekeeping and working fulltime (we both worked) she constantly complained about the house work I did. So yes, this is something that we will have to discuss. Oh yea, I almost forgot she didn't do anything but she also had problems with me asking or telling my daughter to perform household chores. Well I said to me "thanks for cheering me up!"
