Okay, hot tub, vino, beer, champagne fountain, martini bar, cigar humidor, mood music, satin slip cover for futon. We need a budget and shopping trip to obtain the supplies!
MikeG (sorry for getting your thread a little off track.) You have some valid concerns about cooking, cleaning, and parenting responsibilities that you said previously lead to some codependencies. Granted W has plenty going on with working and going to school full time but she still needs to share in the responsibilities – because you need her to. It’s too much for one spouse to handle, I know from when my H traveled. Before you go back home, talk with W and list what needs to be done and who will do what and write down your plan. Work your plan for a few weeks then sit down together again and discuss how it’s going and modify, as needed.
All the best,
Violet
[This message has been edited by Violet (edited 05-23-2001).]