RANDY,
MY ADVISE IS STOP ASKING QUESTIONS, STOP ASKING HER TO WORK ON THE RELATIONSHIP. It took quite a while for us to get to this point of discussion. It sounds like you are seeing the same signs i saw as the transformation was taking place, sounds like she is coming around. It is very important to be patient, friendly, and understanding right about now. She wants to see how you have changed. The secret is to let it take place not control it.