THIS IS A GOODY, KENT you are truly the voice of reason. My every atom feels that you are absolutely right.
Randy Kent has answered both our questions. When I first started to see a change i had to remember the baby steps concept. I say this to you as I remind myself; Relax and enjoy the re-found pleasentness, hang out with your friend some( the friend thing happened before we became husband and wife again, now she readily refers to herself as my wife). Be there for her, don't be judgemental, let her know by listening and not reacting as she opens up that she can talk to you about anything and you won't discount her feelings, this was very important for us. Kent thanks, your reply reminds that a seemingly complicated problem or issue does not have to have a complicated solution. p.s. took a peep at your thread last night will be back to visit soon. Peace
