Jenny & alot, thank you for your reponse you are both right, time to back off. however, right now i do feel a slight sense of set back as her attitude has changed considerably she has stopped calling except for every now and then which i guess is ok. But i must admit i did like the attention. The hard part is it is spring and i want to be in love. I will see her today because i go and pick up the kids on sunday. Any tips ? any one?