Me2, He opens up at the C sessions as he feels it is safe to do so. We already talked about the reasons earlier. Keep it up. My W and I still do the C sessions, once a month. I think we will be ending them soon. The C can help open your eyes and help you understand your spouse better. Hopefully with time, you won't keep needing that help.
I asked about counseling as I think you could use some support in coming to terms with the resentment/ forgiveness thing. I don't know why it is easier for some to let go than for others. All I know is it is imperative that you achieve this. It is a major goal.
The last couple of days has shown me that hangin out on this board constantly is not the most healthy activity either. I now find that most of the forums (not this one) do more to bring me down than anything in my personal life. It's becoming rather obvious that there comes a time to move on. I'm outa here for the weekend.
