yours, ******************************************** I'm able to look at things realistically. The reality is that hopefully our rebuilding process involves keeping the wonderful things from the past relationship and abandoning those that are undesirable. ********************************************* I see the same thing. My problem is it seems to be such a slow process to figure out all the undesirable elements as men and women tend to think differently. I have to watch very closely for reaction to what I do and say. Spouses are not always easy to read and we are not always in a read mode.
I still screw up and guess I always will. I think I am better at identifying when I do screw-up and I certainly take action when I recognize the screw-up. No more sitting back and letting it slide assuming that I have been forgiven.
BTW, It's a sunny, cool day in Chi town. A nice day to get out for a walk. Guess I know what to do for lunch.
