Quote: One of the key definitions of someone who is NOT detached is someone who is manipulated by threats or implied threats of suicide.
Wow, RB, I struggle with this. I too would be swayed if my W made those kinds of comments. That's the part of his sitch that I really don't envy. I've been there before, not with W so much, but a GF in the past and is sucks. On one hand, you KNOW it may not be sincere, on the other, what if.
I am not going back on what I said about him needing to NOT be the one taking responsibility but I do sympathize with him for sure.