Quote: I meant H and I -- we're both "anti-feminist" -- but it also applies to the lizard...
Ok, I guess I just don't really agree that not submitting to your H's will is "feminist". There seems like there is somewhere in between but that is neither here nor there...back to your sitch.
I guess the other thing to identify in the poem is which woman is which. You assume the "fat" one is you but it COULD be her since it's that one that is getting "wronged" in the poem and she probably percieves herself in that role. Very complicated this all is as Yoda would say.