maybe I should clarify about that 'poem" -- we're NOT particularly into BDSM or collaring or all that (although it appears as if the lizard is into that, to a much greater extent!) but we wholly support and are committed to the H being the leader of the family; the wife being willingly subordinate to him in most things.
My thread is under the Infidelity/Adultery section and is called Mea Maxima Culpa -- but I can't get the link to work.
