ALTL, Switch the sexes around and my W and I could be you and your H.
I'm not sure about what triggers your speaking of. If you wish, clarify some.
I typically use to start my day with a life sucks kinda attitude. I think I set the tone for the entire day and probably my life. I now havew a different little talk with myself each morning. now I make a concious effort to think about how I will make the day special. Just one thing each day.
