PL,
Just read your whole thread. Damn. You Strongbear and so many others....

I just cannot comprehend how a wife could stick with a man with an ongoing affair. My wife will likely leave even when I tell her I had one and it is over.

I agree with BR (GEAUX TIGERS - I'm an LSU fan), how long can this go on? I read about the intimate times on vacation and then the cold times too.

I see and understand a lot of what your H is doing, but I just don't understand why his light has not flipped on yet.

Yes OW are just like a drug...telling him that will just piss him off. I'm starting to wonder if dealing with ongoing cheating H should be just like you deal with a drug addict or a drunk.

I know that does not help you. I'm just rambling.

I will be keeping up with you.