Alot,
I have not forgotten you. I lost track of you and admit that it is really great to see you feeling so happy.

In your first post you asked what is the most important thing I learned.

Wow, this is tough as there have been so many important things I have learned. I'll start a list.

I am in control of my own happiness.
I am Kent 1st, husband 2nd and Dad 3rd.
I deserve love and to be treated with respect.
My Wife is her own woman with her own standards, no better or worst than mine.
My W needs my support and acceptance, not my judgement.
The honeymoon should never be over.

Hope I'm not just chatting with myself, although I must admit, I'm pretty interesting.

Kent