Wow. All I can say is that I'm so thrilled for you, whether your H responds or not. You've addressed your issues and you're moving on with your life. The next step is up to him, and he may very well take it.

I'm planning to "take a stand" for myself and my M on August 2. You've been a real encouragement to me today.

The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)